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2023.03.21 08:49 elchhinoo Why do I feel like this ?
You guys maybe have never seen me on here but I just joined today so I can try and get someone’s opinion. I am an 18 year old living with both parents at home and no issues making friends whatsoever. I would consider myself to be the funny guy of the group. I always make other people laugh. For the past couple years, I’ve felt that whenever I get home, I don’t feel like myself. I drown in my own thoughts. I relate to a lot of videos I see on YouTube and tik tok. My sister had a new born recently and I feel like the lack of attention is there. I rarely get asked how my day went, I rarely get asked how I’m feeling, I rarely even get asked if I’m even doing good. I live in a Mexican household, and I know other people can agree with me that they don’t believe in mental health. Your sad ? Toughen up your a man. Basically what it’s like. They think that because I’m a man, I can’t have any feelings. I’ve only had one girlfriend and she truly gave me the world. She showed me what its like to feel loved. Ever since we broke up, I have never felt like that ever. My "friends" rarely ask me if I'm feeling okay. If I say that I'm not, they think I'm joking and just brush it away. I feel so empty when I’m not at school. I just want to feel like I matter. My “friends” laugh at me because I’m on the chubbier side. Whenever we argue or something they just end up saying “shut up your fat” or something along those lines. I have gotten used to it but sometimes it truly gets to me. I’m not the type of guy to show emotions. I typically just bottle it up and just deal with it. I want to feel like I matter but I just can never get that feeling back.
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2023.03.21 08:48 aussie-uggies Australian Made Sheepskin Boots for Women
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2023.03.21 08:48 star111dust Working 6 days a week .....
I consider working 6 days a week now , I have applied for 2 jops and mostly I will get the second one too
Iam a 27 years old female going through a divorce living in a foreign country, have no family here and no close friends, Iam abandoning my marriage and my family who want me back to my country and need me but iam not going
They dont deserve me after all what they made me went through
I have cptsd because of years of going through too much shit but now iam discipline and fine
I literally do my best to function properly and be productive, I will do therapy soon too
I think working will keep me busy and this is exactly what I need , I dont want to be left with my thoughts
Also I work as a hairdresser which i like , this jop contain a lot of socializing and talking with clients so it's kind of better than be alone with my thoughts at home
People keep telling me i shouldn't work 6 days a week and I cant tell them all the reasons above
So what do you think
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2023.03.21 08:48 throwra12121222 My (18F) older sister (38F) overdosed fatally on Fentanyl - need advice on how to ease the regret & guilt
Hi all, gonna try to not make this too long. My older sister had been living with me and my mom from about 2018 up until about June of 2022 where she had gotten kicked out and moved 8 hours away. She had been a heroin/fent addict longer than I’ve been alive. She passed on the 18th three days ago.
We had almost no relationship or maybe it was just a weird rocky one due to me trying to avoid her at all costs. We lived together but never spoke to each other. I would leave the room whenever she entered it and didn’t even look at her. I’ve never even had her number saved or anything. She had gotten kicked out because everything just kept getting worse and worse - her throwing things, stealing anything she could and trashing the house, etc. I do a lot of the cleaning and I would be finding syringes, it was just traumatic and I wanted nothing to do with her.
She then moved 8 hours away and seemed to be getting on track having two jobs living in a house with rented out rooms. I still never had any contact with her and never spoke to her once but my mom did. A woman in her house who had gotten evicted had a fentanyl stash that my sister found as she was the one tasked with cleaning out her room and it killed her.
I am deeply regretting not trying to foster a relationship with her. I am so upset with myself that I never once tried to reach out after she moved and apologize. I know there’s nothing I can do about it but this guilt is eating me alive right now. I know I’m a horrible person for it.
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2023.03.21 08:48 shuttershopinteriors Shutters for Kitchen and Wardrobes Design Tips by Shutter Shop
| As the heart of the home, the kitchen is an essential space that deserves careful attention when it comes to design. A well-designed kitchen not only looks great but also functions efficiently, making cooking and entertaining a pleasure. Here are some Shutters for kitchen and Wardrobes design tips from Shutter Shop to help you create your dream kitchen: Plan your layout: The layout of your kitchen is crucial to its functionality. A well-planned layout will make it easier to move around and work efficiently in the kitchen. The three most popular layouts are U-shaped, L-shaped, and galley. Choose the one that works best for the size and shape of your kitchen, says Shutter Shop, Floor to ceiling wardrobe in Bangalore. Choose the right cabinets: Cabinets are one of the most important elements of a kitchen. They not only provide storage space but also contribute to the overall look and feel of the kitchen. Choose cabinets that are high-quality and durable. Consider factors such as the material, finish, and hardware. Shutter Shop offers a wide range of kitchen cabinet options to suit your style and budget, says Shutter Shop, wardrobes cabinets manufacturers in Bangalore. Focus on storage: A well-designed kitchen should have plenty of storage space. Consider installing cabinets that reach the ceiling, pull-out drawers, and open shelves. Smart storage solutions will help keep your kitchen organized and clutter-free, says Shutter Shop, the Best wardrobe shutter manufacturers in bangalore. https://preview.redd.it/ipjtljryr1pa1.jpg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c44d69fd208dff427c106112413f6c7cf4c10fbd Invest in quality appliances: Appliances are an essential element of any kitchen. Invest in quality appliances that are energy-efficient and have modern features such as touch controls and self-cleaning options. Make sure they fit seamlessly into your kitchen design. Consider the work triangle: The work triangle is the space between the refrigerator, sink, and stove. Make sure these three elements are arranged in a way that creates an efficient work triangle. This will make it easier to move around the kitchen and work efficiently, says Shutter Shop, Floor to Ceiling Wardrobe Mechanism in Bangalore at Best Price. Lighting: Proper lighting is essential in any kitchen. It not only makes the kitchen look better but also makes it easier to work in. Install lighting fixtures that provide adequate task lighting over the counter, stove, and sink. You can also add ambient lighting to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Color and finishes: Choosing the right color and finishes is important when designing a kitchen. Choose colors and finishes that complement each other and enhance the overall look of the kitchen. Consider using a combination of light and dark colors to create contrast and add depth to the space, says Shutter Shop, Modular Kitchen Shutter Manufacturers in Bangalore. Decorative elements: Finally, add some decorative elements to your kitchen. These can include artwork, plants, or decorative lighting fixtures. These elements will add personality and style to your kitchen. Shutter Shop also offers some additional tips for kitchen design: Create a focal point: Choose a focal point for your kitchen, such as a beautiful backsplash or a statement lighting fixture. This will draw the eye and add interest to the space. Add texture: Texture adds depth and interest to a kitchen. Consider incorporating elements such as a textured backsplash, a patterned rug, or a textured countertop, says Shutter Shop, Kitchen Shutter Manufacturers Bangalore. Mix materials: Mixing materials such as wood, metal, and stone can create a beautiful and unique look in a kitchen. Consider using different materials for your cabinets, countertops, and backsplash. Incorporate natural elements: Natural elements such as plants, wood, and stone can add warmth and character to a kitchen. Consider adding a plant or two, or incorporating a natural stone countertop or backsplash. Don't forget the windows: Windows are an important element in any kitchen. They not only provide natural light but also add to the overall look of the space. Consider installing shutters or blinds to control the amount of light and privacy in the kitchen. In conclusion, designing a kitchen requires careful planning and attention to detail. By following these tips from Shutter Shop, you can create a beautiful and functional space that meets your needs. For more information: Website: https://www.shuttershop.co.in/ Address: A24, 3rd Floor, Geetha Towers Near Skoda Showroom, above Sri Udupi Sannidhi, Kamadhenu Nagar, B Narayanapura, Mahadevapura, Bengaluru, Karnataka - 560 016 Contact: +91 74065 56660 Email: [ [email protected]](mailto: [email protected]) submitted by shuttershopinteriors to u/shuttershopinteriors [link] [comments] |
2023.03.21 08:48 Artistic_Telephone16 Follow up to parents who won't hand over birth certificate to adult child
Apparenyly I have been reported and blocked from further comments on the original thread. 🤷♀️
The same government office which handles birth records usually handles death records. They issue certified copies to interested parties.
It begs the question, who owns a death certificate How does a dead person own their death certificate that typically isn't issued until after the body has been laid to rest or cremated?
Answer: the dead person doesn't own the death certificate. The executor of the deceased person's estate obtains a copy from the state and is granted power of attorney by a court in order to settle the deceased person's business affairs, either driven by a valid will, or via established rules of distribution if the person dies intestate (without a will). The death certificate is a legal record of an event, that offers validated proof said event happened, the power of attorney grants the executor the ability to act on the dead person's behalf. BOTH are usually necessary to settle accounts and sell the deceased person's property or change deeds to those who inherit the deceased's property.
Property is defined this way (personal, not real property): Personal property can be acquired for ownership through production, purchase, or gift or, in certain circumstances, by finding it.[may vary slightly from state to state]
This is the basis of the phrase, "possession is 9/10 of the law." In the absence of a receipt showing purchase, then found or gift could be claimed, but the receipt showing purchase kinda serves as a trump card.
The child hasn't done any of these with respect to his/her birth certificate. The parents however, did pay a fee to obtain it. Paying the fee us most closely aligned with PURCHASE.
Just because the event is a child's birth doesn't make the physical piece of paper the personal property of the child named in the document. Truth : the parents are ALSO named in that document, the proof they are the child's legal guardians - useful for registering a child for school, assisting the child in getting a driver's license, a passport, or using it in conjunction to identify their child in the absence of a government issued ID or obtain government benefits.
What if great Aunt Judy who is 80 years old contacts the state and requests a certified copy of a birth certificate for her genealogy research? If a child's name/birth event is on it, according to the court of public opinion logic, it belongs to the child, not the one who paid the fee to obtain the certified copy of the instrument. So yeah, Let's sue Aunt Judy for documenting the family tree!! [Absurd!]
It is not automatically the child's property anymore than the furniture in the parent's home. It certainly NOT worth the level of hostility toward parents because they won't hand it over, as that is a purely emotional argument, NOT a legal one. [Hence the suggestion to understand Case/common law.] Litigation will reform one's thoughts on right/wrong when you read the legal arguments from appeals processes. Oftentimes in civil cases, BOTH litigants have valid legal arguments - then what? The judge seeks to find BALANCE (and the outcome is not acceptable to either party).
I am saying from a legal perspective - as someone who has spent three years in litigation and been threatened with real and personal property litigation in an inheritance situation, and been impacted by a spouse in bankruptcy litigation, the advice which was being given (cops, lawyers, suing), while validating to the original author, is largely FALSE - that the child has some legal claim to his/her birth certificate in his/her parents possession. Pursuing those options is far more costly from a time and money perspective than ponying up for a new certified copy. And if you were to choose those options over just getting a new certified copy, brace yourself for becoming the target of a judge's wrath for wasting the court's time and resources.
Embarrassment isn't abuse. If that's the case, we all abuse ourselves the worst.
My intentional overuse of the word PERHAPS was to establish there may be another perspective not yet considered, not because I am saying it is absolutely the OP's parents' perspective (I have no idea, so please don't read too much into it). But yeah, I'd love to hear THEIR side....because I have heard similar accusations because I have boundaries, which means I accept the risk of no contact when I do say "boundary crossed.... we're done here." That's what boundaries are all about, knowing where your line in the sand is drawn and being willing to act on it, even in the event the emotional abuser threatens no contact. [My door is open, but under the realistic expectation I won't stand for emotional abuse and gaslighting me with amateur psychology after I've spent thousands on therapy and perhaps over-questioned mybown Psychology PhD sibling about concepts.]
AND if anyone has a claim to our kid's birth certificate, it is her Dad (where I got it the day she turned 18 to get the driver's license he wouldn't support her getting because he knew once we gave her a car, he'd lose control, and he did, because I educated HER about her legal rights as an adult - that even though she hadn't yet graduated from HS, she was no longer subjected to a divorce decree's visitation schedule as Dad wanted her to believe - verified by a family law attorney). Said birth certificate has lived in our fireproof safe ever since, at HER request because she didn't want to misplace it.
It's technically Dad's, not hers. He hasn't asked for it back, and she was rude AF about it, using the false logic it is HER property, and the emotional abuse was all about "Dad says this about you", "Dad says that about you." Dad doesn't know a blessed thing about me 16 years after I left except her gossip (same gossip she used to get into our house until she figured out we had rules, too, and wouldn't be manipulated either). He's not exactly my bestie, and we are divorced for a reason. Doesn't mean I have to give in to a$$holery.
Funny how when parents behave toward their kids like the kids behave toward their parents - when they have no legal standing to do so - the parents are ALWAYS the a$$holes.
I'm not saying there aren't entitled parents, like the most recent thread I saw about a woman yanking a mask off another person's face for her kid, but when our kids think they can yank OUR things (like earnings) when they are adults and frustrated with the uphill climb to earn their own, WE are the a$$holes? I used to think the same, until I saw how the courts perceive these things, and realized none of our individual perceptions of right/wrong apply.
My bank account showing $25k of support over a 2.5 year period after HS graduation and divorce decree/child support expiration says otherwise about my willingness to support my kid. I do NOT have to continue to support an ungrateful brat whose average job tenure is at/around 3-4 months and decides she no longer wants to work (that was the deal - she keeps a job while going to school).
Feelings are physical responses to external stimuli - not necessarily facts or evidence.You can retrain yourself - through grounding exercises, to respond without the emotion that comes with reaction, and oftentimes, kids push that limit too far thinking parents should love them unconditionally, even beyond their monetary means. We can love our kids, even when we can't stand them for being immature humans. But we can't fabricate money we do not have.
Live well, people. And know when you have boundaries and are true to yourself, people will not like it, call you names, and tell you how awful you are. Did I give ample warning the outcome was a possibility (that the mostly free ride could end if the boundaries set weren't honored? Yep. Twice, and I let her return. Third time? No. 🤷♀️
No contact is indeed an option, but not usually one you want to exercise until you've spent years in therapy considering all the other options. It CAN be freeing, but it can also become a much larger burden of grief and eliminate a child unnecessarily from a generational worth situation (where you get say, $10, and your siblings gets the rest of your parents million dollar estate - my step-dad did this to one of his kids who went no contact ...even though he died in the late 90s, his kids are still in my Mom's will....except the no contact kid). The less of an estate or more kids can boil it down to "is $X thousand or million dollars if an inheritance WORTH this torture?" For those children who have grown into middle age, have kids and/or have done well for themselves, perhaps cutting off mom/Dad makes sense. For those sporting the label of adult who perhaps lack life experiende, I would recommend not making a hasty no contact decision (and when our daughter moved in with us I encouraged her to NOT do that to her Dad, but he encourages her to do that to me... he also struggled with respecting boundaries , so, no surprise our kid doesn't). It has become a real eye-opener to communicate boundaries and figure out who respects them, and who seeks to leverage them to manipulate me!
Every young person has to figure this out as an adult, just as we did. And until a young person understands juggling all the balls of jobs, bills, home ownership and kids, s/he is in no position to judge.
Heal by understanding that childhood trauma isn't about playing a blame game, but understanding the weaknesses in your own communication and coping skills, to give your inner child the skills your parents didn't possess to teach you (it wasn't their fault either!), or maybe they tried, but you tuned them out for a screen (we have seen this a LOT amongst our peers with kids - if it doesn't come from the screen, it is worthless).
Parents have to choose to work on their own self-improvement, and will always have the same pressure points where you will see their worst when backed into a corner with no good options. It doesn't make them horrible, but oh so very human, just like you.
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2023.03.21 08:47 Soft-Side-9126 what can i do
so, right now im stuck. i work a lot and then when i get home theres nothing for me to enjoy. ill do stuff on like youtube or whatever or play games, but really none of that makes me feel happy they just keep me from being bored, and even then most of the time i am bored. i love to workout and do any type of sport/activity but im dealing w an injury rn so i cant do anything at all. Im 22 and have plenty of friends, but the past year ive realized they arent very good people and dont really want to associate with them and their behavior. i really just do not know what to do, i feel like im going to be stuck in this rut forever. i know for a fact if i could get back into working out this very second nothing else would matter and i would be on it so much like i was a year ago but not being able to just go and lift your problems away fucking sucks and i have no idea how to deal with it (without alcohol)
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2023.03.21 08:47 star111dust Working 6 days a week .....
I consider working 6 days a week now , I have applied for 2 jops and mostly I will get the second one too
Iam a 27 years old female going through a divorce living in a foreign country, have no family here and no close friends, Iam abandoning my marriage and my family who want me back to my country and need me but iam not going
They dont deserve me after all what they made me went through
I have cptsd because of years of going through too much shit but now iam discipline and fine
I literally do my best to function properly and be productive, I will do therapy soon too
I think working will keep me busy and this is exactly what I need , I dont want to be left with my thoughts
Also I work as a hairdresser which i like , this jop contain a lot of socializing and talking with clients so it's kind of better than be alone with my thoughts at home
People keep telling me i shouldn't work 6 days a week and I cant tell them all the reasons above
So what do you think
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2023.03.21 08:47 Independent_Gear_561 Conflicting emotions towards homophobic family members
Hi everyone. I (19M) am writing this post because I'm right now struggling with all of those mixed emotions that I have about my father, who is extremely homophobic, and I really want some advice to cope with all of this while also ranting about it.
I wanna start by saying that for all of his flaws, I still love my father for everything that he has done for me and my family. He has sacrificed a lot to give my brother and I the opportunity to study overseas in an environment where we can achieve our maximum potential. He also takes care of everything to ensure that the family has a stable life ahead of us so I'm really grateful for that. However, with that being said, I seriously cannot tolerate his homophobia any longer. Growing up in a conservative Asian family, I had to endure a lot of my father's homophobic lectures with things like "being gay is a disease", "stay away from gay people or else you will become one", etc. and I was really shocked by all of those egregious things that he said. Whenever he starts rambling on about those topics, I would just be fuming in silence against him while waiting for him to finish his damn lectures and hoped that he ain't gonna say anything LGBTQ+-related afterwards. However, the lecture that he gave me today made my blood boil so bad.
Yesterday, I met up with my guy classmates in junior college (or high school) to have fun with them before we part ways as they have to do their national service and I am preparing to enter university. All we did was eat and walk around the streets to explore the city. I came home quite late because the place that we went was like quite far away from my home and I had to take the train and then the bus back. Today, when I woke up, immediately as I was preparing to brush my teeth, my dad immediately launched into one of his homophobic lectures. This time, however, he questioned about my meet-up last night. He immediately asked about why I came home so late and what I was doing while I was hanging out with my two guy friends. Then he went on about how I might let them "influence me into being gay". I was appalled and livid. I explained to him that the friends that I went out with already had girlfriends and that we weren't even involved in any sketchy stuff cause we only ate outside and walked on the streets and that's all. He still wouldn't listen then said why can't I go out in a large group of friends or have some girls to join us and basically said that when guys hang out they should be playing sports or get involved in physical activities. He even had the audacity to say that he's not worried about my younger brother going out with his guy friends (he was in an all-boys school btw) because all they do is play basketball or whatever sport. I was ready to snap because now he was having his own stereotypes of what people should do when they hang out (For the record, we planned to go out on an arcade because I wanna try to play those dancing rhythm games like Pump It Up which is physical activity but then I forgot my arcade card). Then he still had to keep emphasizing on that damn "being gay is a disease" and I really couldn't take it anymore. I had to defend myself against those ridiculous accusations that my dad was making about me and he even had dared to say that he was "worried that I might become gay". After that morning, I was furious and distressed for the entire day because I couldn't even fathom the fact that he would say such things to me.
TL;DR: My dad is homophobic; one day I hung out with male friends; next day he insinuated that those friends are making me gay.
So right now, I'm just really upset. As a young man still maturing and learning more about himself, this experience really traumatized me and I just don't know what to feel right now. Do you guys have like any advice to cope with this kind of situation? I would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you for listening.
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2023.03.21 08:47 Bluebirx Is anxiety a disability?
Iam 30+, female. I work in the social/development sector. Have worked with various organisations in the past and had terrible experiences wrt bosses and culture in almost all except for one where I worked the longest. I always suffered from performance anxiety (since childhood) and was always told that it was plain nervousness. Toxic workplace culture, being underpaid, too much work pressure to perform, to be vocal, to always have a say - everything culminated into this severe burnout and I decided to take a break last year. Have done small consultancies meanwhile
I am always anxious when it comes to work. It's like i can't help it. Did therapy for a year and it helped me to an extent. I have so much anxiety is navigating a workplace with people and office politics, and all the social performance that one needs to do to be accepted. It's like masking this debilitating anxiety and trying to act normal. I wish I could always work from home. Is this normal. Is this anxiety a disability?
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2023.03.21 08:47 Cfp0001-Iceman Which World Type Would You Want to Explore?
Context I have several worlds in mind I would like to write in, but having a hard time picking between a few. These worlds are entirely based in fantasy and will be entirely possible solar system configurations due to the presence of magic which is a universal catalyst for every aspect of reality. Strange configurations of stellar bodies become the norm. The final option is one possible future form a galaxy may end up to tell the story in.
First thing to note are these worlds are massive and each one comes with benefits and consequences to the MC. Ultimately, I have more world ideas than the story ideas I have can handle. Feel free to use these world ideas as I would love to see any of them envisioned by others!
The Options In-depth - Birch World
- The galactic black hole, Theitan, unleashed chaotic amounts of mana that resulted in a massive shell of mass forming around it the size of the Milky Way Galaxy. The mana causes tetonic like behavior as the inner shell is baked by the intensity of the forces and new super heated material is added and the world slowly expands. Gases that had escaped before the mass became countless weak stars that orbit in tight formations giving a 24 hour day/night cycle, but it varies to simulate seasons.
- Dyson Cloud
- Ancient magical beasts traveled into space and began to manipulate the solar bodies to create a cloud of habitable spaces within a reasonable travel distance. The fallout was tremendous and great destruction was experienced before stability returned to the worlds. People recovered and spread around their home star. People ride magical beasts or magic powered ships to travel.
- Ringed World
- The world became wrapped in 2 different orbital rings slightly off tilt from each other to maximize daylight to the bottom ring. Space is warped around these orbital rings so that they only become a fraction of their width of a shadow on the surface. Due to the warped space, there are rivers connecting the surface to the bottom ring and it to the upper ring. The Rising Rivers are rising pools of water that twist into a column into the sky, but lets ships sail along it if they're careful.
- Shattered World
- An advanced magic civilization was erased and shattered the world, leaving it a tangled mess. Most of the world's water was drained into a crater that spanned an insane portion of the planet. The missing material was not entirely blasted away, instead it floats over the deep ocean as if it was frozen in time mid-explosion. No one can figure out how or why the mammoth islands are immovable as a whole and seem to grow despite erosion. Their cores are molten no matter how time has passed.
- World Gates
- The Infinite Ocean is not one big endless ocean, but a maze of enormous gates hovering half submerged in the oceans. As worlds orbit their stars, the stars orbit the galactic center, and their relative positions shift, the connections between gates also shift as well. With this, worlds can become isolated or trade centers with each change. Navigation becomes extremely complicated as people work out the pattern of the changes to safely make their way home. The World Gates are super advanced ancient technology no one knows who made it or when.
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2023.03.21 08:46 AbigailRoseGazda Blue Jean Baby is going to be on Tiny Home Tours!
| I got to film with Tiny Home Tours (not sure when the video airs) on YouTube and one of the videographers favorite feature of my van was my 41' kitchen countertop. I am 5"9' and grew up with tall countertops at home and knew they would go in my new home too! I also have a compartment for my golf clubs in the garage! What are some of the unique, custom-to-you features of tour build? . submitted by AbigailRoseGazda to vandwellers [link] [comments] |
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2023.03.21 08:46 Candid_Run1758 Absentee Boyfriend
I'm 36 weeks pregnant(24), and the soon-to-be father (27) is rarely home and is out partying every single night. I've stopped working for about 4 months now due to the nature of my work which is not ideal for a growing fetus so my bf has been supporting me financially ever since. He told me he doesn't have to financially support me but he does just because he cares. He makes it seem like he's extremely stressed and has a lot of stress about ending up like our parents and doesn't want to pass on any of our childhood traumas to our son but his actions say otherwise. At this point, I'm scared he won't be there when I go in labor and might have to give birth at home. I have never had anyone around me have children let alone the process of childbirth. I've expressed my concerns repeatedly but he doesn't seem to care. Am I missing something here?
Any advice ?
Also, if the delivery goes smoothly and the baby is fine, does he deserve to be a part of our son's life?
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2023.03.21 08:46 Obillia The Benefits of Freelancing: Why You Should Consider It
In recent years, freelancing has become a popular career choice for many people. Freelancing offers a lot of benefits that traditional 9-5 jobs cannot provide. In this article, we'll explore some of the benefits of freelancing and why you should consider it.
Flexible schedule: One of the biggest advantages of freelancing is the ability to work on your own schedule. You can choose when and where you work, which is especially helpful if you have other commitments like childcare or school. As long as you meet your deadlines, you can work whenever you want.
Work-life balance: Freelancing allows you to have more control over your work-life balance. You can take breaks when you need them and work when you're most productive. This allows you to have more time for hobbies, family, and friends, which can lead to a happier, healthier lifestyle.
Opportunity to earn more: Freelancers often have the opportunity to earn more than their counterparts who work traditional jobs. You can negotiate your rates and take on as many clients as you want, which can lead to a higher income. Additionally, you can choose to work on projects that pay well or that you're passionate about, which can make the work more enjoyable.
Variety of work: Freelancing allows you to work on a variety of projects and with different clients. This can help you build your skills and experience in different areas, making you more marketable in the long run. Additionally, you can choose to work on projects that align with your values or interests, which can make the work more fulfilling.
Independence: Freelancing allows you to be your own boss. You have control over the work you take on, how you complete it, and how much you charge. This independence can be empowering and allow you to make decisions that align with your goals and values.
Reduced commute: As a freelancer, you can work from anywhere, which means you don't have to spend time and money commuting to an office. This can save you time, money, and reduce your carbon footprint.
Tax benefits: Freelancing can offer tax benefits that traditional jobs cannot. You can deduct expenses like home office space, equipment, and travel expenses from your taxes. Additionally, you may be able to set up a retirement account that allows you to save money for the future.
In conclusion, freelancing offers a lot of benefits that traditional jobs cannot. It allows you to have a flexible schedule, work-life balance, earn more, work on a variety of projects, be independent, reduce your commute, and enjoy tax benefits. If you're considering a career change or are interested in earning extra income, freelancing might be the right choice for you.
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2023.03.21 08:45 BetterInfluence6969 Gambling relapse
Hey guys, seeking support/advice. Just a little about me first: I have borderline personality disorder, and ocd. I've had a very long history of trauma in my life & also suffer from high levels of anxiety and depression. I hadn't gambled in several months, and was feeling pretty good about it, however today, as soon as I stepped foot in to the casino that all changed. For some reason, even when I win, I play until I have absolutely nothing. I'm not sure if that's related to ocd/compulsive behavior, or just the addiction itself. Anyhow, I lost $200 dollars, which to some may appear to be a small loss, but for me it's huge. I drove home in tears, and felt physically sick. The funny thing is though, I was up 400 dollars, and I pissed it away all in minutes. Please hp, anyone. Be kind though.
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2023.03.21 08:45 addyxbest Where the feck' do I go?
I am a European who's lived for the last 10 years in Sydney, however, I've always loved Brisbane. I am moving out of my family home & wanted a fresh start in life, & where did I choose? Brisbane, of course! I am but a lowly Swede who knows next to nothing about Brisbane other than the touristy stuff & the fact that it exists, & would love some advice on what suburbs are best to live in as a 26 year old childcare educator. I'm return I offer cheese & dad jokes! 🤙
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2023.03.21 08:45 saradamamilla Best Gynecologist for Normal Delivery in Hyderabad - Dr Sarada Mamilla
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Her specializations include:
* Preconception counseling (pregnancy planning) and advice on fertility treatments, lifestyle and nutrition to ensure healthy conception and pregnancy. She also provides gynecological screenings, including Pap smears, colposcopy and breast examinations to diagnose any health problems or risk factors.📷
Her expertise in the treatment of reproductive disorders includes:
* Endometriosis, fibroids and ovarian cysts. She is a specialist in minimally invasive treatment methods for these conditions, and uses advanced techniques like laparoscopic surgery to improve outcomes for her patients.
Her expertise in the management of urogynecological disorders is well-established, and she is highly skilled in treating a wide range of pelvic floor conditions, including urinary incontinence, prolapse and bladder pain syndrome. She provides specialized management plans for these conditions and offers comprehensive services to help her patients get back on their feet.
She has a special interest in high-risk obstetrics and has performed many complicated deliveries. She has treated many patients with SLE and other autoimmune diseases, leukaemias and ITP and has been able to successfully deliver babies in these situations without any complications.
Her sensitivity and ability to understand the social and cultural needs of her patients are why she is highly regarded. She is also well-known for her leadership skills, which have helped her build and head the Women’s Centre at Continental Hospitals. Her remarkable record of performing more than 20 successful water births and non-descent vaginal hysterectomies is another testament to her excellence in the field of gynecology. She is passionate about delivering babies and providing a stress-free childbirth experience to her patients.
Normal Delivery Doctors Near Me - Dr. Sarada Mamilla
If you're pregnant and looking for a doctor who specializes in normal deliveries, look no further than Dr. Sarada Mamilla. With years of experience and a commitment to providing the best care possible for her patients, Dr. Mamilla is one of the top OB-GYNs in the area. In this article, we'll explore what a normal delivery is, why it's important to choose the right doctor for your delivery, and what sets Dr. Mamilla apart from other doctors in the area.
Table of Contents
- Understanding Normal Delivery
- Importance of Choosing the Right Doctor for Normal Delivery
- Meet Dr. Sarada Mamilla
- What Makes Dr. Mamilla Stand Out
- What to Expect During Your Delivery
- Tips for a Successful Normal Delivery
- Preparing for Your Delivery with Dr. Mamilla
1. Understanding Normal Delivery
A normal delivery is a vaginal birth that occurs without the need for medical intervention, such as induction or a C-section. In a normal delivery, the mother goes into labor naturally and progresses through the various stages of labor until the baby is born. This is the most common type of delivery, with the majority of births in the United States being normal deliveries.
2. Importance of Choosing the Right Doctor for Normal Delivery
Choosing the right doctor for your normal delivery is crucial for a number of reasons. First and foremost, you want a doctor who has experience with normal deliveries and who can help you navigate the process as smoothly as possible. You also want a doctor who you feel comfortable with and who will support your wishes for your delivery.
3. Meet Dr. Sarada Mamilla
Dr. Sarada Mamilla is a board-certified OB-GYN who has been practicing medicine for over 20 years. She received her medical degree from Andhra Medical College in India and completed her residency at St. Francis Hospital in Evanston, IL. She is passionate about providing high-quality care to her patients and has a special interest in normal deliveries.
4. What Makes Dr. Mamilla Stand Out
One of the things that sets Dr. Mamilla apart from other doctors in the area is her commitment to personalized care. She takes the time to get to know each of her patients and works with them to develop a birth plan that meets their individual needs and wishes. She also has extensive experience with normal deliveries and has helped countless women have successful, natural births.
5. What to Expect During Your Delivery
During your delivery, Dr. Mamilla will be with you every step of the way. She will monitor your progress and ensure that you and your baby are safe and healthy. If any complications arise, she has the expertise to handle them quickly and effectively.
6. Tips for a Successful Normal Delivery
There are a few things you can do to increase your chances of having a successful normal delivery. First and foremost, make sure you choose a doctor who has experience with normal deliveries and who you feel comfortable with. You should also prepare yourself physically and mentally for the birth by staying active, eating a healthy diet, and practicing relaxation techniques.
7. Preparing for Your Delivery with Dr. Mamilla
If you choose Dr. Mamilla as your doctor for your normal delivery, she will work with you to create a birth plan that meets your individual needs and wishes. She will also provide you with guidance and support throughout your pregnancy to ensure that you are healthy and prepared for your delivery.
Location Details
Call Us: +91 8599989995 Address: Yashoda Hospitals, Raj Bhavan Rd, Matha Nagar, Somajiguda, Hyderabad, Telangana 500082
Lucid Medical Diagnostics, Road Number: 68, beside Ulavacharu, Jubilee Hills, Hyderabad, Telangana 500034
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2023.03.21 08:45 lunarlamps Capturing Memories in Nature: Exploring the Possibilities of Photo Leaf Carving
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Photo leaf carving" is an art form that combines nature and creativity to produce stunning works of art. This unique technique involves carving intricate designs into dried leaves, resulting in beautiful and delicate pieces that are both elegant and distinctive. However, the possibilities of this art form go beyond aesthetics. In this post, we will explore the various ways in which photo leaf carving can be used to customize photos onto leaves and the different applications of this art form.
Firstly, photo leaf carving allows you to customize your photos in a unique and creative way. This process involves transferring your favorite photographs onto dried leaves, then using specialized tools to carve intricate designs onto them. The result is a personalized piece of art that captures the essence of your memories in a natural and timeless way. Whether it's a cherished family photo or a special moment from a vacation, photo leaf carving allows you to turn your memories into art that will last a lifetime.
Beyond its use as a form of customized art, photo leaf carving has many practical applications. Here are some of the ways in which it can be used:
- Home decor: Carved leaves can be used to decorate your home, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere. They can be used as wall hangings, table centerpieces, or even as lampshades, adding a touch of nature to any room.
- Souvenirs: Photo leaf carving can be used to create unique souvenirs for tourists, especially those visiting areas with a rich natural environment. These souvenirs can range from simple carvings to more intricate designs that capture the essence of the location.
- Personalized gifts: A carved leaf with a person's name, initials, or a special message can make a unique and thoughtful gift for any occasion. Whether it's for a wedding, anniversary, or birthday, a photo leaf carving is a personal and meaningful gift that will be cherished for years to come.
- Jewelry: Carved leaves can be incorporated into jewelry designs, such as pendants, earrings, and brooches. These delicate pieces of art can be worn as a symbol of nature's beauty and the memories associated with the photo carved onto them.
- Artwork: Photo leaf carving can be used to create intricate and delicate pieces of art, such as portraits, landscapes, and still life compositions. These works of art are not only beautiful but also serve as a reminder of the natural world's beauty.
In conclusion, photo leaf carving is an art form that combines creativity and nature to produce stunning works of art that can be used in various ways. Whether it's as a form of customized art, home decor, souvenirs, personalized gifts, jewelry, or artwork, photo leaf carving is a versatile and unique way to capture memories and showcase the beauty of nature.
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2023.03.21 08:45 music-of-life Where Can I Watch 'Demon Slayer Anime' Online Free?
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